I DON’T UNDERSTAND PARENTS WHO LET THEIR KIDS “EXPRESS THEMSELVES” HOWEVER THEY WANT.

Casual Senpai you are right, you can’t control them forever, BUT as long as they are under your roof, they have to learn there are rules that need to be followed.

At least , that’s the way it was when I grew up and when my children grew up. Just my opinion.

Casual Senpai as a parent, to a child, you set boundaries. As the child grows and matures the boundaries change.

If you want to express yourself take up art or music. Get into sports or drama. Once the child is on their own all you can do is watch… 

Casual Senpai well I raise three children and I was fairly strict but when they got old enough to understand things better, I always told  them I’m not always right you have an opinion and don’t be afraid to express it and they did that most of all I … 

Casual Senpai all about one expressing themselves, but until your of age and paying your own way in life this would never happen under my roof.

Casual Senpai I totally agree with you on that. Some of the Parents now a days being their friends instead theirs Parents. Remember the decision they made today affect them for the rest of their life.

That is how leaders are born! Id rather hsve my kids expreexpress themselves and grandchildren. That whst music art and great leaders come from

Casual Senpai teaching this child of the value of good work ethic and a desire to get an education and a good job so she can take care of her own self is more important than being able to get tattoos and piercings. Most good jobs require you look decen… 

Children are not meant to be molded into versions of us. They are singular beings on their own who have the right to be themselves. I let my son get his ear pierced…. today he doesn’t because he decided he didn’t want it when he was older. He had h… 

Casual Senpai you can control when they are young it’s parents jobs to steer them to do right things. Kids know what they are taught

Casual Senpai I don’t agree with the piercings on the face. But if they want tattoos I’m fine with it. As long as they pay for them. I have them. Having tattoos does not make you a bad person. Neither does different colored hair.